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Signs ABA Therapy Is Working For Your Child

Dr. Susan Diamond, MD
Medically reviewed by Dr. Susan Diamond, MD — Written by Kaylan Hardin — Updated on August 28, 2025

29-08-2025⬝5 minute read

As a parent of a child with ASD, entering the therapy world can be overwhelming. ABA therapy has been found to be accepted and evidence-based, but how do you actually know if it really works for your child? You’re investing time, energy and finances, but of course, you want to see results.

The good news? You do not need to be a behavior analyst yourself in order to keep track of your child’s progress. You can, with system and with sharp observation, become an active and informed part of your child’s therapy.

In this article, there is an educational checklist intended to allow parents anywhere to see if their child is thriving with ABA therapy and celebrate at every turn of their progress.

Why Is Tracking Progress So Important?

Tracking your child’s progress in ABA therapy is crucial for several reasons:

  • Informed Decision-Making: It helps you understand what’s working and what might need adjustment.
  • Celebrating Successes: Acknowledging even small improvements can be incredibly motivating for both you and your child.
  • Advocacy: Solid data helps you communicate effectively with your therapy team, school, and other professionals.
  • Optimizing Outcomes: By staying engaged, you ensure the therapy remains individualized and effective.

Your ABA Therapy Progress Checklist: What To Look For

This checklist covers key areas of development that ABA therapy typically targets. Remember, every child’s journey is unique, and progress may not always be linear. Focus on consistent, long-term trends rather than day-to-day fluctuations.

1. Communication & Language Development

This is often one of the most critical areas for children with autism.

  • Increased Requests (Manding): Is your child more frequently asking for desired items, activities, or help (verbally, through pictures, or gestures)?

Example: Instead of crying, they now point to the juice or say “juice.”

  • Following Instructions: Can your child follow simple, one-step instructions, and are they starting to follow two-step instructions?

Example: “Touch your nose,” then later, “Touch your nose, then clap your hands.”

  • Labeling (Tacting): Is your child identifying and naming objects, people, or actions in their environment?

Example: Seeing a dog and saying “dog,” or pointing to a car and saying “car.”

  • Conversational Skills (Intraverbals): Are they starting to answer questions, fill in the blanks, or engage in simple back-and-forth exchanges?

Example: You say “Twinkle, twinkle little…” and they say “star.”

  • Reduced Echolalia: If present, is there a decrease in repetitive speech or an increase in functional, spontaneous language?

2. Social Interaction & Play Skills

Developing meaningful connections is a core goal of many ABA programs.

  • Eye Contact & Joint Attention: Is your child making more consistent eye contact, especially when someone is speaking to them or trying to engage them? Are they sharing attention by looking at something you point to?
  • Initiating & Responding to Social Greetings: Do they acknowledge others with a “hi” or a wave, or respond when greeted?
  • Sharing & Turn-Taking: Are they showing an increased ability to share toys or take turns in games?
  • Parallel or Cooperative Play: Is your child playing alongside other children (parallel play) or beginning to interact with them during play (cooperative play)?
  • Responding to Others’ Emotions: Are they showing any recognition or response when someone else is happy, sad, or upset?

3. Reduction Of Challenging Behaviors

ABA therapy is highly effective in understanding and addressing behaviors that might interfere with learning or safety.

  • Decrease in Frequency/Intensity: Has there been a noticeable reduction in the number of times a challenging behavior (e.g., tantrums, self-injury, aggression) occurs, or is it less intense when it does happen?
  • Increase in Appropriate Replacement Behaviors: Is your child using newly taught, functional behaviors to communicate needs instead of the challenging behavior?

Example: Asking for a break instead of throwing items when frustrated.

  • Improved Transitions: Is your child managing changes in routine or moving between activities with less resistance or fewer outbursts?
  • Increased Compliance: Are they following directions and requests more readily? 

4. Daily Living & Adaptive Skills

Fostering independence in everyday tasks is a key component of a fulfilling life.

  • Self-Care Skills: Is your child showing progress in dressing, feeding themselves, toilet training, or personal hygiene?

Example: Pulling up their pants independently, or taking steps towards using the toilet.

  • Chores & Responsibilities: Can they complete simple household tasks (e.g., putting toys away, helping set the table)?
  • Community Skills: Are they demonstrating improved behavior and participation during outings (e.g., grocery store, park)?

5. Generalization & Maintenance Of Skills

A truly effective therapy program ensures skills aren’t just learned in the therapy room.

  • Across People: Is your child demonstrating new skills with various family members, therapists, teachers, and peers?
  • Across Settings: Are the skills being used at home, at school, in the community, and in different therapy environments?
  • Over Time: Is your child retaining learned skills even after a break from therapy or when not prompted?
  • Spontaneous Use: Is your child using new skills without being prompted or reminded?

Tips For Parents To Effectively Track Progress:

  • Communicate Regularly with Your BCBA: Your Board Certified Behavior Analyst (BCBA) is your best resource. Schedule regular meetings to discuss progress, review data, and share your observations.
  • Keep a Journal or Log: A simple notebook or an app on your phone can be invaluable. Jot down specific examples of new skills, improvements, or challenging moments. Include the date and context.
  • Ask for Data Review: ABA is data-driven! Request to see the graphs and data collected by the therapy team. Your BCBA should be able to explain it clearly.
  • Observe in Different Environments: Pay attention to your child’s behavior and skills at home, at the park, during playdates, or during school interactions.
  • Focus on Specific, Measurable Goals: Work with your BCBA to ensure the goals are clear and you understand what success looks like for each one.
  • Celebrate Small Wins: Progress isn’t always monumental. Acknowledge and celebrate every new word, every shared moment, and every tantrum averted.

Taking Action

Empowering yourself with this checklist and maintaining open communication with your ABA therapy team in Phoenix or wherever you are located will not only help you track your child’s progress but also make you an even stronger advocate for their development. Remember, effective ABA therapy is a collaborative effort, and your insights as a parent are an invaluable part of your child’s success story.

Want to know if your child is thriving with ABA therapy? Our team at Dallas ABA Center can help. We partner with families to create personalized, data-driven therapy plans. Contact us today at (214)-838-7938 or book your appointment online and let’s discuss your child’s progress!

Medical Disclaimer

This content is for informational purposes only and does not replace professional clinical advice.